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I'm still confused why Christian grey is an abuser and not a dom?

smuttyscribbles:

I’ll give you a list;

  • Ignoring consent
  • Reacting to the sentiment “no, I don’t want to have sex with you right now” by threatening to tie the speaker up, taking their clothes off, and… having sex with them.
  • Not treating safewords as important
  • Not treating contracts as important
  •  Joking about the importance of safewords and contracts in a D/s relationship
  • Having a partner sign a D/s contract without telling them it isn’t legally binding
  • Not exploring and explaining limits
  • Forcibly preventing a partner  from learning about their limits
  • Forcibly preventing a partner from learning about a sexual practice you are encouraging them to engage in
  • Making a romantic relationship dependent on indulging non-mutual kinks
  • Taking sexual advantage of someone who is intoxicated
  • Pushing someone who has never experienced any sexual interest, including maturbation, into a sexual relationship immediately after meeting them
  • Pushing someone who has never experienced any sexual interest, including masturbation, into a kinky sexual relationship immediately after meeting them despite the fact that they have no knowledge about kink
  • Refusing to allow that partner any trustworthy source of knowledge about those kinks other than yourself
  • Forcing a partner to make specific decisions about birth control based on your preferences
  • Reading a partner’s email and phone messages without their knowledge or consent
  • Physically hurting a partner without their informed consent
  • Physically hurting a partner even though it causes them fear
  • Controlling who a partner can and cannot spend time with outside of the relationship
  • Showing up at someone’s house after they’ve literally just emailed you to say they don’t want to see you anymore
  • Routinely forcing a partner to eat when they don’t want to.

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mike-and-his-blog:

When you reblog one of those prompts and get no asks

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mydraco:

Happy birthday, Harry James Potter! July 31, 1980

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prewars:

smallgovernment:

at this point I’ve nearly forgotten that pirating movies and software is illegal


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accidentalpornblog:

Read this way out of context.

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artist-chan:

optimussentinel:

ur-supposed-to-say-jerk:

thepizzakitty:

i hate pants that make it look like i have a boner when i sit but then i remember im a girl but i still worry that somebody will think i have a boner

SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS

Do… Girls really worry about this?

yes


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satanslittlewh0re:

this is the best pun in tv history but oh my gosh the feels

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linguisticsyall:

lucithor:

WHY WAS I UNAWARE OF THE FACT THAT “DISGRUNTLED” IS, IN FACT, THE OPPOSITE OF “GRUNTLED”

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WHY DOES NOBODY USE THIS WORD

I’m so gruntled to have found this


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